I need all the support I can get sister Fatima. Thank u for this great platform, may Allah bless u abundantly. I’m the kind of woman who always wants to give the benefit of doubt to someone. I trusted my husband 100% until recently. Of course checking his phone has never been something I do. Infact , when he started using passwords I didn’t care. I never entertained those thoughts. I don’t even stress myself over these things. I don’t know why, I did check…..and i know ppl would blame me for it but I believe it is just a way Allah destined..and of course I saw text messages btw him and a christan girl where she evn sent acct no,he has her pics both with her, they call each other frequently, n even calls her by a loving term. I’m hurt, really hurt. I know many women go thru this, I never knew how painful it would feel. Wallahi, men fear Allah. The pain u inflict on a woman’s heart and the tears u cause to flow might be ur downfall. But, I don’t hate him. I still love him. Infact,I’m willing more than ever to do everything I can to have him back. I don’t think d relationship Is that deep yet, I believe I’m better than her and that with Allah, she’s nothing compared to me. This is what I’ve been telling myself to pacify myself. I need duas ,if thers someone u can refer me to for candid advice and duas , pls,pls,pls….help me. I know I’m not perfect ,but I’m willing to make myself a better version. Thank u
Find hisnul muslim, recite morning and evening azhkars, duas for anxiety and sorrow,ƙunutul witr, du’as for one in disress, dua’as for enemies or those of authority, supplication for one who fears the oppression of the ruler(where there is so and so mention his name and her name), du’as when in fear of people.
Discuss the issue with him in a well mannered character, dnt rush take it easy, beleive in Allah He will solve your problem.
Subhanallah! I don’t know what you meant by “better person” but anyway, your husband has never left you and except if he maltreat you, you don’t have any problem.
Men generally love more than one wife. To be candid with you, he will eventually marry one either now or later. What’s more important is dt you introduce new techniques of expressing ur love for one another and continue to pray (especially d istihara prayer for Allah to make it happen if it will be beneficial to both of u in ur deen, life, family and d hereafter…..)
Lastly, I don’t know why u compared ur self to d one outside, but it’s not because u’re less beautiful our caring Dan d other lady. Am sure u’re as good as u used to be so just chill, be prayerful and enjoy ur husband till u share him with another sister.
SubhanAllah! Be prayerful dear sister. These days I wonder what has become of our Muslim men. They just find interest in the non Muslim women, most of which is mostly lustful than real love. Allah will surely be with you, just be steadfast in prayer!
Asalamu alaikum, pls always do a lot of istighfar and ricite this often (Allahumma la sahla illa ma ja`altahu sahla wa anta taj`al ul-hazna idha shi’ta sahla).it dua ricited wen one find his /herself in a difficult situation. May Allah easy yr pain sis.
Asalamu alaikum, pls always do a lot of istighfar and ricite this often (Allahumma la sahla illa ma ja`altahu sahla wa anta taj`al ul-hazna idha shi’ta sahla).it dua ricited wen one find his /herself in a difficult situation. May Allah easy yr pain sis.